I am no expert in dating and relationships. I have had my own struggles maintaining and sustaining one. I had a penchant for drama in my past relationship life and my scripts were what rom-coms and cheesy stories are made of.
11 REASON'S WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY THE SIMPLE, UNCOMPLICATED GUY
Here are 11 reasons why you should marry the simple guy:
(article source: http://elitedaily.com/dating/reasons-marry-simple-man/1079807/)
And then, I swoooooon!
To all the plain, simple, uncomplicated guys out there and to the lucky girls who bagged them, CHEERS! :)
I was 28 when I met Lt. Z. I was half way past the drama life. I was happy and content chillin' in my little independent world. Then there he was and I realized how my perspective on relationships have dramatically changed! It could probably be due to a little maturity or just my hormones cooperating, but I truly felt at ease and secured in what we had.
Ozkar sailed into my life in a smooth breeze. But, being the drama queen that I can't help to be that I am, during the onset of our getting to know stage, i was like, "sooooo, what's the catch?" "uhm, tell me, whats the best kept secret?" "hey! any skeletons in your closet that we can dig out now?" .. but there was none! He was so transparent about everything. He had no frills, no drama, no uh-ohs! What I saw was what I got! He walks his talk. He clearly knows what he wants and does not take the middle ground for an answer. Unlike me, who regards the drama in everything, he was non-poetic, straight-forward, on point, .
He was three words: plain, simple and uncomplicated.
I honestly was not expecting that nor I was I ready as well .. but there he was presenting himself the way he is. It took a while for me to say "okaaaaaay, so this is it huh?". And I dont think it was just because I just TOLERATED it, coz hey, our course of 16 months has been full of anything and everything crazy and beautiful.
I honestly was not expecting that nor I was I ready as well .. but there he was presenting himself the way he is. It took a while for me to say "okaaaaaay, so this is it huh?". And I dont think it was just because I just TOLERATED it, coz hey, our course of 16 months has been full of anything and everything crazy and beautiful.
I came across an article that explains exactly what I think, which I secretly wish I wrote, haha. But then, I couldn't have written it on point more than the writer did it. hehe .. So, lemme just share it with y'all ..
11 REASON'S WHY YOU SHOULD MARRY THE SIMPLE, UNCOMPLICATED GUY
A simple, mature guy will always make the best boyfriend and the best husband. He’s a laid-back kind of dude who finds joy in the little things.
He’s a doer and a go-getter, but he also knows when it’s time to relax. He’s not about drama — no way!
He just gets back to basics. In such a crazy, hectic world, he knows how to chill out.
He’ll always be your biggest supporter and your greatest friend. There isn’t anything complicated about your relationship.
Everything is easy. It’s safe and secure. It feels good to have this kind of solid, stable love.
You’re a lucky girl if you’ve landed a guy like him. He’s essentially a unicorn, so never let him go!
Here are 11 reasons why you should marry the simple guy:
1. He has no hidden agenda.
His intentions are always pure. When he tells you something, you know he says what he really means. He’s an open book.
A simple guy will never find the need to lie to you. He’s an honest, trustworthy person who values his integrity and his honor. You don’t have to question him because he’d never give you a reason to.
2. He’ll never break your heart.
He’s a sweet, genuine guy. He’d never play you, and he’d never hurt you. He makes you feel safe.
3. He gladly lets you take the spotlight.
He doesn’t mind being the wind beneath your wings. In fact, he enjoys it.
When you’re the life of the party, he’s your biggest supporter. He admires you and he’s proud of you.
4. He’s easy-going.
He’s just a go-with-the-flow kind of a guy. He’ll never cause drama just because he’s bored. He doesn’t pick fights just to shake things up, either. He’s chill.
He isn’t hard to please.
5. He just wants to make you happy.
When it comes to your relationship, his ultimate goal is to make you as happy as possible. He’ll do whatever it takes to make your relationship as strong as he can.
He’ll always treat you right because there isn’t a selfish bone in his body.
6. He loves to dote on you.
He loves your independent spirit, but he also likes to do little things to make you smile.
He’s the kind of guy who will surprise you with flowers and a Vita Coconut Water and rub your feet after you nailed your first-ever 10K race.
He wants you to know how much be adores and admires you. He finds pleasure in doing things for you.
7. He thinks you’re beautiful even when you don’t feel beautiful.
Even on the days you feel your worst, he still thinks you’re the most beautiful woman he’s ever laid eyes on. When you wake up in the morning, face smudged from last night’s makeup, he just wants to kiss you. He knows he’s a lucky man.
8. He’s your best friend.
He values your companionship above all else. He sees you as a treasured equal. The two of you can talk about anything and share everything. You make the most meaningful memories together.
9. He’s the kind of guy your dad would approve of.
He is the kind of man your father has always pictured for you. He’s stable, committed, and he’s good to you. Sure, no one will ever really be good enough for his little girl, but your sweet, simple guy is about as close as it gets.
10. He grounds you.
He’s stable and logical. He brings you back down to earth when you get too lost inside your head. He’s perfect for you because he helps you sort through every problem with gentle ease.
11. He’s supportive of your dreams.
You can always count on him to be your biggest supporter. He is the person who will cheer you on and always make you feel like you can do anything. The two of you together are a true force to be reckoned with.
(article source: http://elitedaily.com/dating/reasons-marry-simple-man/1079807/)
And then, I swoooooon!
To all the plain, simple, uncomplicated guys out there and to the lucky girls who bagged them, CHEERS! :)
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